UPDATE: OK so after a painful amount of time trying to figure it out, neither the board (physically) or RAM is at fault but the BIOS is broken, I had the latest BIOS as of writing which was version 7D03vA4 which did not let me use XMP whatsoever with any RAM plugged into the second memory channel, the BIOS version previous to this 7D03vA3 however does work properly and now i have all 4 RAM sticks working with XMP no problem.
This is ridiculous that an expensive board, especially the GODLIKE could have such a fault in the BIOS...